July 23, 2006
Bringing your child to the dentist
It’s been a while since my last update.I have been rather busy with the clinic and balancing my time to spend with my family.I have to remind myself that in spite of the long hours spent at the clinic,my family still come first .
Speaking of families,I want to share a little about this lovely family who came last month with their youngest daughter Cheyenne,who is four.
Cheyenne had never been to a dentist and she was a little apprehensive.This little girl had decay on almost every single tooth in her mouth.Not quite uncommon in children who have a regular diet of sweets and candies.
Anyway,Cheyenne had many fillings to be done.Her parents had explained to her as much as a 4-year-old could understand that she would need some dental treatment.And this is the right thing to do.Many children are terrified because they do not know and they do not understand why they are placed on a foreign-looking chair and asked to open their mouth,not to mention having unfriendly-looking instruments poking at their teeth!Parents play a vital role in preparing their children before coming to the dentist.Explain to them about having their teeth examined.Be truthful and do not attempt to tell half lies.The worst thing to do is to deceive your child that you are bringing him or her somewhere else,and the next moment he or she is shoved into the dental surgery.No wonder they re-act and resist!Of course,the ultimate damage that can be done is to threaten and frighten your child with horror stories about the dentist.I have seen the lasting impact of such inflicted fear,all the way into adulthood.
Coming back to Cheyenne,after a thorough examination on her teeth,we embarked on a treatment plan which would span over the next few weeks.As apprehensive as she was,I managed to coax her to start with one filling on her first visit.Subsequently,I have completed her planned restorations,which totaled 8, in 5 separate visits.
The reason why I am writing about about Cheyenne is because she has a wonderful family who gives her incredible support.On her first visit,her parents ,together with her older brother and sister,were all present with her in my dental surgery.I thought that was a very endearing thing for the whole family to come along and give her the moral support.And on subsequent visits both her siblings were always accompanying her,and they are only 10 and 8 respectively.
After practising dentistry for so many years and having encountered a whole variety of different personalities,I am convinced that the “fear of dentists” is a universal condition,and it transcends all ages,gender,ethnicity and nationality.And,I also discovered that having someone close,perhaps a family member or a good friend,to go along for a dental appointment,will help take away some of the fear and apprehension,provided the support-giver is encouraging and not equally as fearful.
Therefore,I truly commend the Woon family for their relentless support and encouragement towards Cheyenne.With many reminders not to take candies regularly and to brush her teeth well(actually I reminded her parents that they play an important role in managing the candies,and they have to help brush Cheyenne’s teeth as she does not have the dexterity to brush her own teeth well yet),she will have a better dental condition from now on,and she will hardly have any problems coming to the dentist in the future.Well,I am looking forward to seeing her in 6 months’ time,and I wouldn’t be surprised to see her entire entourage!




